After joining the Discord:
Get whitelisted. Steps for this are broken out in #❓-how-to-join.
Before logging into the server, your character must be naked (or in a L1 Rag Tunic) with only a building hammer and/or torch - nothing else is allowed in your inventory.
lf you plan to play with mods, make sure that you only have mods from the Full Mods List mention in the #📂-allowed-mods channel.
Once you're ready to log in, connect the IP you used in your #📥-join-submissions to connect to Comfy. If you see a message that says that you are banned, open a ticket under #❗-get-support. Irongate's coding can give this error for players who aren't whitelisted.